Girls are scared when they walked around alone. All they want is that someone to just hold her hand tightly to make her feel safe. The warmth of someones arms around her just to make her feel right. Sometimes the littlest things are the things that will be remembered the longest.
1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her of your sweatshirts
5. Kiss her slowly –Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together
11. Smile with her.
So this is my boyfriend, Ezriel Robin Ochoa.
We broke up July 1st, 2010. 3 Days later, I had an accident where I fainted. I guess I when I fainted, I hit my head on something really hard that caused me to forget a whole lot.. When I woke up in the hospital, my boyfriend was the first person that came to my head. The first person I looked for as soon as I woke up, and the first person I remembered the best. Not knowing we were broken up, I let him know what happened to me. I think he knew something was wrong with me.. Because I was still acting as if we were still together.
That night, we talked on the phone for 4 hours till I finally fell asleep at 4:30am. Through those 4 hours, he told me plenty stories about us, as a couple. Such as, how we got together, how he’d come to my house every Friday, our good memories.. etc. It finally came to mind that we were really special, and what we had together was really special. As hours passed by, I started to remember more and more about our relationship. I suddenly remembered something and I had my heart broken all over again.. He told me we did break up.
When I started to cry over our breakup, he told me to just forget about it. I heard him crying so much as he told me that he loves me so much, and he doesn’t want to loose me anymore. I remember him telling me that we’re soo much in love and he never loved someone the way he loves me. That he wants to marry me. He reminded me about our plan, and how I want him to be my babydaddy. How we’re going to have a boy first and name him Dominic. Then have a girl, and name her Lynette.. Just as I started to remember so much, I told him I was afraid to fall asleep in result of waking up the next morning and forgetting about him.
The next morning, I didn’t know who he was.. Just as I hoped wouldnt happen. He was really upset about that.. Today, he told me I forget about him a lot. It’s been 4 days since my accident and every day, he tells me stories about us and our relationship to help me remember him. The same ones as he told me that night.
It makes me sad how I forget him, and how he gets sad because I don’t know who he is for a few minutes or an hour.. But when I talk to him, I don’t feel as lost anymore. I seem to start remembering things again, but slowly. He always finds a way to get my memory back. He always finds a way to get me to fall in love with him, all over again.
I just *re-met him today, and he was so sweet. I could tell he was upset, because I guess I just recently forgot about him, again. But when I think of him, I remember so much.. that’s if I think really hard. At times, I hear his name and it sounds so familiar, but then I start loose it…
Hopefully I get better soon. But I’m so thankful to have a boyfriend of 13, almost 14 months (in 2 days) to be there for me through these difficult 4 days. I’m so thankful to have a boyfriend that still loves me so much, even if I forget about him.. he doesn’t give up on me. And I’m so thankful to have a boyfriend who loves, and cares about me and sticks by my side through everything.
I don’t care if I’m only 14 years old. Age is just a number. Whether I’m 14, 20, 30 or 40.. love can come at any time. And you’ll know. And I know I love him; real love.
Love shined brighter than the accident that happened to me, making me forget almost everything… I always remembered about my love first. Always. Pure and true love never dies.
Thank you, baby. I’m trying my best, and I’m fighting to get better again, just for you. I don’t want to forget you again… But when I do, don’t forget that I love you so much. Always and forever, through thick and thin, no matter what. Just as I always promised.
Don’t worry, I’ll find my way back to you. If I did it for 4 days, I can do it until I recover. Don’t you worry baby.. /= I’m sorry if I forget you again, or whatever happens. But I will find my way back to you, I promise.
Riding a jeepney is an adventure itself. You never know if you’re going to meet an old friend or get an update on last night’s episode of Ruby. But there are things that people do that annoy you and ruin your morning. I did an informal survey and here’s the top five:
1. Passengers ignoring you when you’re handing your fare. (Come on guys! It’s not my fault that public transit is this way.2. Breastfeeding babies in jeepneys. (I admire mommies who breastfed kids but there’s a reason why formula milk or breast pumps are invented.)
3. Girls who don’t have the decency to tie their hair even if it means hitting the person next to them with their hair strands. (You’re not in a TV commercial girls!)
4. Taking a lot of space. (The minimum fare is only 7 pesos. Some people sit as if they paid 14 pesos).
5. Passengers talking loudly. (Not everyone is interested in your life or your frenemy’s life!)
